I’m just gonna leave this here…..~
Body posi journal entry :)
"Oh and BY THE WAY
I am fat
I am beautiful
I am fat AND beautiful
I am BOTH
No or, or “this not that”
My body is not a work
I will stop apologizing
For my body
I am a HAPPY…..FAT…..GODDESS”
Anonymous asked: You have given me do much self confidence. Thank you. You're beautiful inside and out. You're an amazing person.
<3 Thank you.
Anonymous asked: Im bigger than my boyfriend by about 50 pounds. And he makes me feel so beautiful and now im just getting comfy enough to be naked around him. But he wants to take a shower together and I feel like he would look at me like I was disgusting
Annie: Showers are fun! But they can be dangerous, haha. Go for it, you will definitely enjoy it! It’s great if you’re feeling playful and it’s very sensual as well if you choose to rub each other down and get soapy. It’s a new experience so I understand how it can be a little nerve racking, sometimes it’s a little hard to change positions or move around but it’s fun!
If you haven’t been naked around him before then I don’t suggest the first time he sees you naked to be in the shower, try something a little more ‘normal’ in case you get bashful and want to cover up then you’ll be able to.
Tyler: Taking a shower with somebody is a very erotic and intimate act, and I think it’s the most intimate way you can show a lover that you’re comfortable with being around them (next to going to the bathroom with them in the same room). I think it’s a very pure way to let someone in and see your entire body, warts and all (I mean that figuratively, of course!). If you’re uncomfortable with showering with them, there are other fun ways to be undressed around them before taking the leap into the bathtub with them, like a naked picnic on your bed.
rachelleighbarnett asked: Hi! My name is rachel and I'm 18 and weigh 350 lbs. I'll be going off to college in San Francisco in the fall. I'm worried about going to college as a virgin and having never really been kissed,or having a boyfriend and being Fat. I need advice!
Rachel, do not even worry about it. I started college at 17, literally 2 weeks after graduating high school and didn’t lose my virginity until a few years later.
College is the time to find yourself and discover who you really are. Depending on what school you go to, I practically went to an all female school, you will no doubt meet new people and mennnnn! Giving you a chance to reinvent yourself into the person you want to be in order to attract the partner you want.
You’re young, don’t try to adhere to other people standards. Just because most kids your age are out there diddling each others do-dads doesn’t mean you should be too! Take your time and don’t rush it, if you do it might not be as special.
But honestly loosing your v-card isn’t that big of a deal, at least not for me. The fella I lost it too was well endowed but it was kinda like, “Is this it. Is this what everyone was crazy for! I was worried about THIIIIIISSSSS!”. So take your time, it’s 100x better with someone you care about or love.
thecalifornialife1992 asked: I love this blog. I'm kind of in the same situation but it's the opposite. I'm a really tall girl (5'11) that towers over most girls and my boyfriend is pretty tall too (6'4) but he's 300 lbs, but the difference is that I am a part time model and people tell me that I'm too good for my boyfriend and that a "tall, hot model with a beautiful face and ridiculously long legs" should never date a "fat loser" but I love him!
First of all, RUUUUUDDDEEEEEE! How dare they stick their noses where it doesn’t belong! A relationship is between two people, they have no right to tell you you shouldn’t be with him, unless of course you asked for their opinion. We don’t get to choose who we love, it just happens.
Second of all! He is a pretty tall fella! I know plenty of tall people who way more and look proportionate but even if he didn’t, who cares! You love him!
Third! Grrrrlllll, are you kidding me…You’re fella is a cutie! I don’t know what those people are telling you but he is not a “fat loser”. And you both look like you have similar eyes, in other words, you two have gorgeous eyes. If it at all matters, I think you guys look cute together <3