Anonymous asked: Hey so I'm a junior in high school and I have it pretty bad for this boy who weighs quite a bit less than me. I'm don't think he feels the same about me as he treats me the same way he treats his other friends and I can't help thinking that it's because of my weight. I worry that people in general will never think of me romantically or sexually because of my weight. It doesn't help that his ex is skinny and beautiful and a lot of other girls are also into him. Any advice?
Some guys aren’t really aware of when a gal likes them. Some are down right clueless of the fact actually! When I was in high school I got some of the best advice from a woman I looked up to on letting a guy know I liked him, I was worried that being a woman I couldn’t ask a guy out, that I had to wait for him. She let me know that all the guys she had ever been in a relationship with she had to ask out herself because they were either clueless to the fact that she liked them or they didn’t see her as more of a friend until she made her feelings known.
There are plenty of larger beautiful woman in the world so just because you are bigger or overweight doesn’t make you any less gorgeous or attractive to the opposite sex. Dress in a way that makes you feel confidant and make your move! the worst that can happen is you get shot down. Test the waters first by flirting and see how he reacts in case you’re nervous. And if he reacts positively well then little lady, you know what to do ;)